INFIDELITY DOESN'T HAVE TO END YOUR MARRIAGE

We guide couples to rebuild trust, restore connection, and move from hurt to hope after infidelity through personalized Christian marriage coaching

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Has your marriage been impacted by infidelity?

You don’t have to walk this path alone.

We’re Steve & Lisa and we can help you save your marriage

We remember thinking this could never happen to us. But an affair nearly broke us. We’ve lived it firsthand, so we get it.

Through God’s grace, our marriage was restored. Out of that restoration, He led us to start Side By Side, a nonprofit ministry where we now have the privilege of walking alongside couples facing the same pain we once experienced.

Today, our marriage is not only restored and thriving, but over 90% of the couples we help say the same thing.

We believe your marriage is worth saving, and we’d be honored to be your guides.

You are not alone in this journey!

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The Path to Stay

The Path to Stay is our personalized coaching program designed specifically for couples seeking to rebuild their marriage after infidelity.

We’ve walked this road ourselves. As a husband-and-wife team who experienced the devastation of betrayal and the hope of restoration, we understand the unique journey of both the wounded and the wayward spouse. Drawing from our own story, years of coaching experience, and biblical principles, we’ll walk alongside you with compassion, practical wisdom, and hope every step of the way.

Each coaching experience is tailored to your unique story and includes eight private two-on-two coaching sessions focused on the essential building blocks of healing – confession, repentance, grieving, forgiveness, rebuilding trust, healthy communication, strong boundaries, and protecting your marriage for the future.

To provide additional support between sessions, you’ll also have access to one-on-one coaching calls as needed and ongoing text support throughout your coaching journey.

You don’t have to navigate this road alone. We’ll help you move from the pain of betrayal toward the hope of restoration.

Why Side By Side is Different

Personalized

Every marriage is different, and so is every healing journey. We tailor each session to your unique story, providing practical guidance and encouragement for where you are today.

Biblical

God's Word is the foundation of everything we do. As Certified Biblical Counselors through the Association of Biblical Counselors, we combine biblical truth with compassionate guidance to help couples find hope, healing, and lasting restoration.

Available

Healing doesn't just happen during scheduled sessions. With one-on-one calls and ongoing text support, we're available to walk alongside you when you need guidance the most.

Ready to take the next step?

What our COUPLES have to say...

This is such a special and unique ministry. We have felt understood in ways we didn’t think anyone would ever be able to.

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Rated 5 out of 5

Anonymous

Raleigh, NC

We feel really good about our relationship right now. We have grown more than we could see for ourselves.”

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Rated 5 out of 5

Anonymous

Nashville, TN

“God is truly using this ministry to impact marriages frayed by infidelity in a most meaningful way towards healing and restoration.”

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Rated 5 out of 5

Anonymous

Fort Lauderdale, FL

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"I need to confess my affair."

Have you been unfaithful to your spouse, but you’re afraid to confess? Are you afraid of the consequences of fessing up? Do you worry that your spouse will not forgive you?

 

If you have yet to confess an infidelity and need guidance on how to do it, download this free confession guide providing key points to prepare you to shed light on your infidelity.

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"I just found out. What now?"

Have you discovered that your spouse has been unfaithful? Are you overwhelmed with grief and confusion? Do you question everything–including how your marriage could possibly survive this?

 

You are not alone. Download our free e-book to use as a resource to receive guidance and wisdom on how to navigate the discovery of infidelity.

 

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"I feel like I'm doing this alone."

When a marriage is broken, it is oftentimes one spouse that is fighting for reconciliation and healing more than the other. Is that you? Do you wonder how you will have the strength to hang on?

 

Download this free guide for practical tips and biblical wisdom on how to continue fighting for your marriage even when your spouse isn’t.

 

Want to learn more about Side By Side?