The holiday season can be a challenging time for couples after infidelity. We understand the unique struggles you may face during Christmas celebrations since we’ve experienced them ourselves. The festive cheer can feel like a stark contrast to the pain and uncertainty in your heart. If you’re facing the first
How I Helped My Husband Get Over His Girlfriend Comforting The One Who Hurt You How I helped my husband get over his girlfriend. Sigh. Even after several years, I still can’t believe I was the one most capable of comforting the very person who hurt me most. If I
3 Reasons it’s Hard to End an Affair A post from Steve, one who knows. Why is it so hard to end an affair? This blog post is written to the spouse who had the affair. It’s out in the open now, you’ve said you want to work on your
3 Warning Signs You’re Tempted to Cheat on Your Spouse (and how to avoid them!) Are you ever tempted to cheat on your spouse? I’m pretty sure we all know that infidelity is never a good idea, but sometimes the temptation can be overwhelming. You may not even see it
Infidelity Unpacked: Understanding the Different Types of Affairs for Stronger Marriages Have you ever had suspicions that your partner may be having an affair? Or have you found yourself drawn to someone who is not your significant other? Infidelity is a sensitive topic that most people prefer to avoid. But, knowing
Is Confession Necessary? A Real-Life Example of Whether Confession Helps or Hinders After months of living a double life, Dan’s wife discovered he was having an affair. In fact, he was caught red-handed. To his surprise, he was relieved to be caught. In fact, he was tired of lying and
A Fresh Start Is It Even Possible After Infidelity? A brand-new year is typically an opportunity for a fresh start. Most people look forward to cleaning the slate and making a fresh start with new goals and plans for the future. But, what about those of us whose past
Is Porn Cheating? The question of whether or not pornography use is cheating on a spouse has been debated for years. When serving marriages divided by infidelity, we are asked this question frequently: Is porn cheating? Our aim in writing this article is to give you our answer,
How Are We Ever Going To Trust Again?: The 7 Elements of Rebuilding Trust After an Affair One of the most frequent questions we are asked by couples divided by infidelity is this: How are we ever going to trust again? Then, the spouse who has been betrayed will
Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater? You’ve probably heard this statement several times. ‘Once a cheater, always a cheater.’ But is it true? Today, I am going to give you our thoughts on this statement, and it might not be what you expect. Infidelity nearly broke
What is the difference between infidelity and adultery? (and does it even matter?) Have you ever wondered what the difference is between infidelity and adultery? There are all kinds of words used to describe unfaithfulness in marriage, many of which I prefer not to repeat. The words we
Drastic Measures: Building Trust After The Affair A Guest Post by Steve, one who knows Are drastic measures really necessary for building trust after the affair? Short answer? Yes. Long answer? Yes. Standing in line at Panera, I snapped a photo on my phone and texted it to my wife.
Love, the Antidote to Unforgiveness. You may be saying to yourself, “How can I ever forgive?” Love, the antidote to unforgiveness, is the furthest thing from your mind. You might be in a situation that seems unforgivable. You may have experienced something so heinous, no one would ever expect you
These Are The Ones Hope for a Hurting Marriage Have you wondered how one finds hope for a hurting marriage? I walked out of the auditorium doors just as one of our Easter services ended. Throngs of people streamed out shortly thereafter, with my husband just behind them. This was
Every year we add to our marriage is celebrated as if we climbed Mt. Everest!
I give up. I can’t do this anymore. I am done. Have you ever said any of those words? Or words similar? Life is hard and it sometimes presents us with situations that seem impossible. Completely impossible. They are the kind of situations where you look at it from the
