WE’RE REALLY GLAD YOU FOUND US

Reaching out after infidelity has been discovered can feel heavy.

For many couples, this is the first time they have said out loud:
“There’s been an affair” or “We don’t know how to move forward.”

If that is you, you are not alone. You are not too late.

Most couples who contact us are walking through betrayal, some very recently, others still struggling with the lingering pain, confusion, or disconnect it has caused.

We understand this personally. Infidelity is not just something we talk about, it is part of our own story of hurt and healing. We know the shock, the questions, and the fear of the unknown. And by God’s grace, we have also experienced hope and restoration. 

There is still hope.

Whether you are ready to begin coaching, have questions about what healing looks like, or just want to talk with a real person before taking the next step, we would be honored to hear from you.

If you are struggling right now

You might be experiencing:

• The shock of a recent discovery
• Broken trust and deep emotional pain
• Conversations that go nowhere
• Repeated conflict or silence
• One spouse unsure about reconciliation
• Fear about the future of your marriage

Infidelity shakes everything.

You do not need to have clarity before contacting us.
Most couples begin with,
“We don’t know what to do.”

That is a good place to begin.

What happens after you contact us

When you reach out, you are not committing to anything.

We will:

• Listen to your situation (confidentially!)
• Help you understand how we guide couples through affair recovery
• Let you know if we believe we are a good fit for your season
• Answer your questions honestly

Our goal is to listen with care.

Side By Side is a nonprofit ministry, supported by donors who believe couples impacted by infidelity deserve compassionate, Christ-centered guidance in times of crisis. That support allows us the availability to serve you when you need it most.

We approach every couple with compassion, truth, and hope.

Just exploring?

We also hear from pastors, counselors, family members, and friends seeking help for a couple impacted by betrayal.

You are welcome to contact us with questions about:

• Affair recovery coaching
• Our book or other resources
• Referrals for someone you care about
• Church partnerships or speaking
• Whether our approach might fit your situation

Send us a message

Please fill out the contact form below. Share as much or as little as you feel comfortable.

We personally read every message.

Because many couples contact us during difficult moments, we aim to respond as soon as we reasonably can — usually within 24 hours..

Taking this step may feel small.

But after betrayal, even small steps require courage.

We are honored you reached out.

A quick note

If you or your spouse are in immediate danger or experiencing abuse, please contact local authorities or a trusted local counselor right away. Coaching is not a substitute for emergency care.

We are grateful you took this step.

Steve & Lisa