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Surviving the Holidays After Infidelity: 7 Common Questions Answered

The holiday season can be a challenging time for couples after infidelity. We understand the unique struggles you may face during Christmas celebrations since we’ve experienced them ourselves. The festive cheer can feel like a stark contrast to the pain and uncertainty in your heart.  If you’re facing the first Christmas since the revelation of […]

Is Confession Necessary?

Will confession free you?

Is Confession Necessary? A Real-Life Example of Whether Confession Helps or Hinders   After months of living a double life, Dan’s wife discovered he was having an affair. In fact, he was caught red-handed. To his surprise, he was relieved to be caught.  In fact, he was tired of lying and just wanted to forget about […]

A Fresh Start: Is it even possible after infidelity?

A Fresh Start  Is It Even Possible After Infidelity?   A brand-new year is typically an opportunity for a fresh start. Most people look forward to cleaning the slate and making a fresh start with new goals and plans for the future. But, what about those of us whose past year included broken trust, betrayal, […]

Is Porn Cheating?

Is Porn Cheating?   The question of whether or not pornography use is cheating on a spouse has been debated for years.  When serving marriages divided by infidelity, we are asked this question frequently: Is porn cheating?   Our aim in writing this article is to give you our answer, the reason for it, and […]

Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater?

Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater?     You’ve probably heard this statement several times. ‘Once a cheater, always a cheater.’ But is it true?   Today, I am going to give you our thoughts on this statement, and it might not be what you expect.   Infidelity nearly broke us, and now we have […]

How I Helped My Husband Get Over His Girlfriend

How I Helped My Husband Get Over His Girlfriend Comforting The One Who Hurt You How I helped my husband get over his girlfriend.  Sigh.  Even after several years, I still can’t believe I was the one most capable of comforting the very person who hurt me most.  If I didn’t live it, I would […]