How to Get Over the Guilt and Shame After an Affair
I was overwhelmed by my guilt and shame after revealing my affair to my wife. At times, I thought I would never get out from under the weight of the huge mistake I had made. Especially in the beginning of our healing, I wondered if I would be tainted by the label of “cheater” for […]
Surviving Infidelity: 12 Steps to Affair Recovery
Surviving infidelity is not something anyone wants to have to do in their lifetime. Enduring the pain of betrayal is something we all prefer to avoid completely. No one stands at the altar on their wedding day expecting to one day walk into affair recovery. Yet, statistics show us that at least one in four […]
Surviving the Holidays After Infidelity: 7 Common Questions Answered
The holiday season can be a challenging time for couples after infidelity. We understand the unique struggles you may face during Christmas celebrations since we’ve experienced them ourselves. The festive cheer can feel like a stark contrast to the pain and uncertainty in your heart. If you’re facing the first Christmas since the revelation of […]
3 Warning Signs You’re Tempted to Cheat on Your Spouse (and how to avoid them!)
Are you ever tempted to cheat on your spouse? I’m pretty sure we all know that infidelity is never a good idea, but sometimes the temptation can be overwhelming. You may not even see it as temptation until you’re in the danger zone. If you’re starting to feel like straying from your relationship, it’s important […]
Infidelity Unpacked: Understanding the Different Types of Affairs for Stronger Marriages
Have you ever had suspicions that your partner may be having an affair? Or have you found yourself drawn to someone who is not your significant other? Infidelity is a sensitive topic that most people prefer to avoid. But, knowing more about it can help both those who have experienced it and those who haven’t. […]
Is Confession Necessary?
A Real-life Example of Whether Confession Helps or Hinders. After months of living a double life, Dan’s wife discovered he was having an affair. In fact, he was caught red-handed. To his surprise, he was relieved to be caught. In fact, he was tired of lying and just wanted to forget about the whole thing. […]
A Fresh Start: Is it even possible after infidelity?
A brand-new year is typically an opportunity for a fresh start. Most people look forward to cleaning the slate and making a fresh start with new goals and plans for the future. But, what about those of us whose past year included broken trust, betrayal, and infidelity? Is it even possible to start fresh after […]
Is Porn Cheating?
The question of whether or not pornography use is cheating on a spouse has been debated for years. When serving marriages divided by infidelity, we are asked this question frequently: Is porn cheating? Our aim in writing this article is to give you our answer, the reason for it, and a way to apply the […]
How Are We Ever Going To Trust Again?: The 7 Elements of Rebuilding Trust After an Affair
One of the most frequent questions we are asked by couples divided by infidelity is this: How are we ever going to trust again? Then, the spouse who has been betrayed will ask for very specific trust-building items for their partner to do. The spouse who had the affair will wonder why it’s taking so […]
Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater?
You’ve probably heard this statement several times. ‘Once a cheater, always a cheater.’ But is it true? Today, I am going to give you our thoughts on this statement, and it might not be what you expect. Infidelity nearly broke us, and now we have dedicated our lives to serving marriages experiencing the trauma of […]
